Does my fight end up on the internet?
No. Every case starts private. You read your verdict first, then choose whether it goes to the public feed. Account deletion removes your cases, posts, votes, and comments.
An impartial AI referee for the argument you keep having
Tell ToldU both sides of the fight. You get an honest split, the reasoning behind it, and two or three things you can actually do next — in under a minute.
Free. Nothing is public unless you publish it.
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ToldU never rules 100 to 0. Almost no argument is that clean.
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Write what happened in your own words. No names needed — just the situation, and what each of you actually said.
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The AI asks up to three targeted questions — only where an answer would genuinely change the ruling. Skip any of them.
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An AI mediator weighs communication, assumptions, effort, and impact, then hands down a fault split with its reasoning and two or three things to actually do. Never 100 to 0.
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Publish it and the community picks a side — yours or theirs — and the split moves live. Or keep it private and never post at all. Your call.
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Scroll a feed of real, unsettled arguments from people in exactly your situation. Cast your vote, read the rulings — and find out how rarely you're the only one.
No. Every case starts private. You read your verdict first, then choose whether it goes to the public feed. Account deletion removes your cases, posts, votes, and comments.
It isn't judging your relationship — it's judging one argument. No therapy, no picking a winner, and never 100 to 0. You see the reasoning, so you can see exactly where it's wrong.
Because you'll have an answer by Thursday. ToldU gives you a ruling in under a minute with steps you can take tonight — then puts it to a vote if you still want the crowd.